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Dating & Relating

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Love, dating, relationships..and yeah, sex. Let's talk. Share your frustrations, talk about what's going on in your love life. Tell us what you're looking for in your match.

http://boston.going.com/dating

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* You are supposed to be an adult. Act like one!
* Be friendly, civil and respectful. This is not the place for personal attacks.
* Offensive posts will not be tolerated. Objectionable messages will be removed.
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Derrick
Derrick

New Web Television Show

Welcome Ladies and Gentlemen to Double Edge TV, I’m your creator, and host Derrick Carey. Double Edge TV has launched its first segment The Heart Behind the Music. Double Edge TV gives inspiring Musicians the opportunity to promote their tour dates, Gigs, new Album releases. It also give’s the viewers the opportunity to get to know their local musicians a little better, but remember each artist performs directly after the show.
You can view episodes of Double Edge TV at www.myspace.com/dastad or at www.youtube.com/dastad.

Basic Tags will be: Double Edge TV, The Heart Behind the Music, Derrick Carey, Music, or the name of the band.

Thank you for your time, good night, and God bless from Double Edge TV

Artist this week:
Michael Pace - Singer, Guitarist from the Band Oxford Collapse - New York City Based
Trevor Portz: - Singer, Guitarist from the Band Pawn Star - New York City Based
Liquor Boxx - Shy Town, the Windy City Chicago Illinois

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  1. Derrick
    Derrick

    New Web Television Show + -

    Derrick Aug 20 at 2008, 12:12 PM
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    <message deleted>

    Derrick said "Welcome Ladies and Gentlemen to Double Edge TV, I’m your creator, and host Derrick Carey. Double E"
    Welcome Ladies and Gentlemen to Double Edge TV, I’m your creator, and host Derrick Carey. Double Edge TV has launched its first segment The Heart Behind the Music. Double Edge TV gives inspiring Musicians the opportunity to promote their tour dates, Gigs, new Album releases. It also give’s the viewers the opportunity to get to know their local musicians a little better, but remember each artist performs directly after the show.
    You can view episodes of Double Edge TV at www.myspace.com/dastad or at www.youtube.com/dastad.

    Basic Tags will be: Double Edge TV, The Heart Behind the Music, Derrick Carey, Music, or the name of the band.

    Thank you for your time, good night, and God bless from Double Edge TV

    Artist this week:
    Michael Pace - Singer, Guitarist from the Band Oxford Collapse - New York City Based
    Trevor Portz: - Singer, Guitarist from the Band Pawn Star - New York City Based
    Liquor Boxx - Shy Town, the Windy City Chicago Illinois
    Last post 9 days ago
  2. Ms. Wow
    Ms. Wow

    Finding Friends + -

    Ms. Wow Jul 15 at 2008, 2:28 PM
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    Ms. Wow said "My new years resolution was to make my circle of friends bigger and thus far it hasn't happened. I mean I go out a "
    My new years resolution was to make my circle of friends bigger and thus far it hasn't happened. I mean I go out a lot. I have more male than friends than female. What is the secret behind trying to meet friends at an even and them not thinking that you are a lesbian or just plain creepy?
    1. Nursey
      Nursey

      RE: Finding Friends + -

      Nursey Jul 15 at 2008, 3:16 PM
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      Nursey said "It's just hard to meet new friends period! I'd like to widen my social circle too.. but it is difficult. We should h"
      It's just hard to meet new friends period! I'd like to widen my social circle too.. but it is difficult. We should have a night out - just post and everyone try to meet up.. make new friends.. :)
      1. Laura
        Laura

        RE: Finding Friends + -

        Laura Aug 7 at 2008, 5:21 PM
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        Laura said "Dats a great idea! I know a spot that I take my new co-workers to when I want to get to know them...its called Ka"
        Dats a great idea! I know a spot that I take my new co-workers to when I want to get to know them...its called Katwalk on 35th and 5ave...very cool lounge and the drinks are pretty cheap...got to be 21+ they check ids...what do say?
        1. EvilTwin
          EvilTwin

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          EvilTwin Aug 8 at 2008, 4:08 PM
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          EvilTwin said "I work a couple of blocks from Katwalk. Sometimes my company has events there on the second floor."
          I work a couple of blocks from Katwalk. Sometimes my company has events there on the second floor.
          1. Laura
            Laura

            RE: Finding Friends + -

            Laura Aug 12 at 2008, 2:13 PM
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            Laura said "Cool...I'm wit meeting you and your co-workers if your wit meeting mine..."
            Cool...I'm wit meeting you and your co-workers if your wit meeting mine...
    2. ferrin
      ferrin

      RE: Finding Friends + -

      ferrin Jul 16 at 2008, 1:23 AM
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      ferrin said "People are great! Aren't they?"
      People are great! Aren't they?
      1. ferrin
        ferrin

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        ferrin Jul 17 at 2008, 1:17 PM
        4 posts
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        ferrin said "That was sort of a vauge response. Wasn't it? What I meant to say, except that I was too drunk to write it appropri"
        That was sort of a vauge response. Wasn't it? What I meant to say, except that I was too drunk to write it appropriately, is that everyone longs for some sort of companionship. People are in high demand.

        Friends are great to have. Even I do not have many friends, male or female. I am very selective in who I wanna call a bud. In fact, earlier this year, I broke up a friendship between another gal and I. I have no regrets about that choice.

        I just read through my post and do not see it pertaining much to your topic, Ms. Wow. I am sorry. Sometimes I'll use a soapbox to just babble.

        If not already I'd like to be your friend on here, Ms. Wow. If you accept my friend request you will have made your circle of friends bigger. I'm a good woman. You will enjoy my friendship.
        1. EvilTwin
          EvilTwin

          RE: Finding Friends + -

          EvilTwin Jul 18 at 2008, 12:24 PM
          3 posts
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          EvilTwin said "Yeah I know how it feels sometimes. Sometimes I really don't want to add new people to my X-Mas list. Sorry."
          Yeah I know how it feels sometimes. Sometimes I really don't want to add new people to my X-Mas list. Sorry.
          1. Ms. Wow
            Ms. Wow

            RE: Finding Friends + -

            Ms. Wow Aug 7 at 2008, 3:49 PM
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            Ms. Wow said "uhh it would take a special person to add to my X-mas list,so i understand. lol"
            uhh it would take a special person to add to my X-mas list,so i understand. lol
            1. SUVs R wasteful
              SUVs R wasteful

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              SUVs R wasteful Aug 13 at 2008, 12:59 PM
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              SUVs R wasteful said "Christmas list or not, having friends requires time and energy. If you have neither one of those due to your job or "
              Christmas list or not, having friends requires time and energy. If you have neither one of those due to your job or occupation, chances are you WON'T have that many friends.

              It's a trade off people have to choose, just like paying attention to family.
      2. ferrin
        ferrin

        RE: Finding Friends + -

        ferrin Jul 17 at 2008, 1:18 PM
        1 post
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        <message deleted>

    Last post 16 days ago
  3. vernessa
    vernessa

    Lose love... + -

    vernessa Jul 22 at 2008, 3:44 PM
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    vernessa said "Hey…question, A few months ago this guy was head over me but I was not giving him the time or day becau"
    Hey…question,

    A few months ago this guy was head over me but I was not giving him the time or day because I was dating someone at the time. But now that I am single and had some time to myself to think about what I want in a relationship, I now want to be with him. But now he has a girlfriend. Do I tell him how I feel? Or just let us stay friends. Even though I am currently dating someone, I think about this other guy all the time and I enjoy spending every second with him. What do I do??? I would not like to lose him as a friend.
    1. Ofer
      Ofer

      RE: Lose love... + -

      Ofer Jul 22 at 2008, 4:48 PM
      4 posts
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      Ofer said "If you can tell him that you'd be interested if only he were available, in a way that *doesn't* make him feel pressu"
      If you can tell him that you'd be interested if only he were available, in a way that *doesn't* make him feel pressured or make it seem like you need him to do something about it now, then tell him. Maybe if he becomes available and he's interested, he'll let you know at that time, because knowing that you're interested already makes it easier. But you have to really be satisfied with just letting him know, and not expecting him to do anything about it now, because if you're not satisfied with that I think it would show somehow and he'd feel uncomfortable.
      1. EvilTwin
        EvilTwin

        RE: Lose love... + -

        EvilTwin Jul 23 at 2008, 1:26 PM
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        EvilTwin said "Just tell him the truth. Maybe he doesn't even like his new GF. You never know."
        Just tell him the truth. Maybe he doesn't even like his new GF. You never know.
        1. Ms. Wow
          Ms. Wow

          RE: Lose love... + -

          Ms. Wow Aug 7 at 2008, 3:53 PM
          2 posts
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          Ms. Wow said "then why would they be dating if he didn't like his gf. i think that u should wait see if it works out. i would thin"
          then why would they be dating if he didn't like his gf. i think that u should wait see if it works out. i would think that u were very selfish if i was in a happy relationship and you told me your feelings for me.
          1. EvilTwin
            EvilTwin

            RE: Lose love... + -

            EvilTwin Aug 8 at 2008, 4:12 PM
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            EvilTwin said "Maybe he is just using the new GF for sex cuz he got tired of waiting and got tired of using his hands fantasying ab"
            Maybe he is just using the new GF for sex cuz he got tired of waiting and got tired of using his hands fantasying about vernessa.
    Last post 21 days ago
  4. Jas (Jazzie)
    Jas (Jazzie)

    To be cheated on. + -

    Jas (Jazzie) Jul 22 at 2008, 1:30 PM
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    Jas (Jazzie) said "Is it pathetic to be cheated on and still want to get back together with your ex?"
    Is it pathetic to be cheated on and still want to get back together with your ex?
    1. Shanita
      Shanita

      RE: To be cheated on. + -

      Shanita Jul 22 at 2008, 2:11 PM
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      Shanita said "Yes, it is pathetic."
      Yes, it is pathetic.
      1. Brealon
        Brealon

        RE: To be cheated on. + -

        Brealon Jul 22 at 2008, 3:31 PM
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        Brealon said "baby, if i cheat on you, and you get back with me? im gonna cheat on you again."
        baby, if i cheat on you, and you get back with me?
        im gonna cheat on you again.
    2. SUVs R wasteful
      SUVs R wasteful

      RE: To be cheated on. + -

      SUVs R wasteful Jul 23 at 2008, 1:32 PM
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      SUVs R wasteful said "Ouch! Sorry to hear that happened to you. :`-("
      Ouch! Sorry to hear that happened to you.

      :`-(
      1. Jas (Jazzie)
        Jas (Jazzie)

        RE: To be cheated on. + -

        Jas (Jazzie) Jul 23 at 2008, 1:46 PM
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        Jas (Jazzie) said "yeah... dont plan on going back together or anything, just in general... what if the opportunity were to come up... "
        yeah... dont plan on going back together or anything, just in general... what if the opportunity were to come up... but i highly doubt that i am desperate enough to get back w/ someone who's a total ass.
        1. EvilTwin
          EvilTwin

          RE: To be cheated on. + -

          EvilTwin Jul 24 at 2008, 12:45 PM
          2 posts
          70 views

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          EvilTwin said "Just cheat on him in return."
          Just cheat on him in return.
          1. Ms. Wow
            Ms. Wow

            RE: To be cheated on. + -

            Ms. Wow Aug 7 at 2008, 3:43 PM
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            Ms. Wow said "a dish of karma and revenge anyone?"
            a dish of karma and revenge anyone?
    Last post 22 days ago
  5. Moxieinthecity
    Moxieinthecity

    Tell Him Why She's Just Not That Into Him + -

    Moxieinthecity Aug 7 at 2008, 9:22 AM
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    Moxieinthecity said "She's Just Not That Into Him http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblo... Name: Marillion | | Location: New Yo"
    She's Just Not That Into Him
    http://moxieblog.typepad.com/moxieblo...
    Name: Marillion | | Location: New York , New York |Question: I was dating someone back at the end of March, the relationship lasted about 2.5 months. It ended due to a couple of factors, she had gotten fired from her job and that affected her and she then wanted to travel around the world for a year before starting work again. She said she can only commit to herself and didn't want to string me along at all. Overall, we get along very well and we've been in touch and have emailed back and forth, saw her once a couple of weeks ago at a concert and it was fine. Now, she just told me that she's going on one more big trip and then took a job in early Sept. The question I have is what is the best strategy to try and get back with her again without being too aggressive? |Age: 36
    1. Toby
      Toby

      RE: Tell Him Why She's Just Not That Into Him + -

      Toby Aug 7 at 2008, 11:21 AM
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      Toby said "I have a feeling that his restraining order is already typed up, except for the date on that form. Poor chump. He sh"
      I have a feeling that his restraining order is already typed up, except for the date on that form. Poor chump. He should attract a better woman and forget about that shopper.
    Last post 22 days ago
  6. ferrin
    ferrin

    I am high on a bit of java.... + -

    ferrin Jul 22 at 2008, 2:13 PM
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    ferrin said "I am high on java and Adderal (haha got hooked up with it through a friend). So, I am going to start a topic..hooray"
    I am high on java and Adderal (haha got hooked up with it through a friend). So, I am going to start a topic..hooray!!!
    Last night, I slept with my best friend, Tony. I love him and whenever we have sex it is extraordinary! He's a good man, but I just cannot see a relationship sprouting with him.
    First of all he has an open marriage with another gal. On top of that he's not at all wealthy. Then, as superficial as this may sound, he's got a big belly and a small dick.
    Other than the things listed above, he would be perfect for me. Of course, I would not break up his marriage, but I could see myself as his concubine, permanently.
    What do you folks think I should do? Is there anything I can do or should I just keep things the way they are?
    1. Ofer
      Ofer

      RE: I am high on a bit of java.... + -

      Ofer Jul 22 at 2008, 4:46 PM
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      Ofer said "It sounds like you both are happy with things as they are. What reason is there to change it? (I'm not saying there'"
      It sounds like you both are happy with things as they are. What reason is there to change it? (I'm not saying there's no reason to change it, I'm just asking if there is one, because if there is, you didn't show it in your message)
      1. ferrin
        ferrin

        RE: I am high on a bit of java.... + -

        ferrin Jul 22 at 2008, 5:46 PM
        5 posts
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        ferrin said "Thanks for that...I'll follow your advice."
        Thanks for that...I'll follow your advice.
        1. EvilTwin
          EvilTwin

          RE: I am high on a bit of java.... + -

          EvilTwin Jul 23 at 2008, 1:24 PM
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          EvilTwin said "Wait? Huh? Im confused. If he has a big belly and a small pennis? How is the sex extraordinary?"
          Wait? Huh? Im confused. If he has a big belly and a small pennis? How is the sex extraordinary?
          1. SUVs R wasteful
            SUVs R wasteful

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            SUVs R wasteful Jul 23 at 2008, 1:30 PM
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            SUVs R wasteful said "Oral? Hahaha"
            Oral?


            Hahaha
            1. EvilTwin
              EvilTwin

              RE: I am high on a bit of java.... + -

              EvilTwin Jul 24 at 2008, 12:47 PM
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              EvilTwin said "Oh true. I forgot about that one. LOL"
              Oh true. I forgot about that one. LOL
            2. ferrin
              ferrin

              RE: I am high on a bit of java.... + -

              ferrin Jul 26 at 2008, 3:37 PM
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              ferrin said "Of course, there was oral, kids!"
              Of course, there was oral, kids!
    Last post 34 days ago
  7. Arnold
    Arnold

    Dazed and Confused + -

    Arnold Apr 13 at 2008, 8:22 PM
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    Arnold said "I've never seen so many stuck up, one-track-mind goal oriented, emotionally lacking females in my life, since I've"
    I've never seen so many stuck up, one-track-mind goal oriented,
    emotionally lacking females in my life, since I've
    moved to Boston. Seems like everywhere I go, all I see are girls
    with mile high engagement rings, or ones with their head sooo stuck
    up their asses, that communicating with them would be ultimate suicide
    . Any suggestions where to meet some good looking,
    intelligent, having a nice personality single females around here?
    If so let me know whats up :-) Thanks




    anagy11@hotmail.com
    1. ferrin
      ferrin

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      ferrin Apr 13 at 2008, 8:36 PM
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      ferrin said "I hear that about northeast-coast women all the time. If you are truly looking for a good down-to-earth woman come"
      I hear that about northeast-coast women all the time.
      If you are truly looking for a good down-to-earth woman come out west.
      1. Arnold
        Arnold

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        Arnold Apr 13 at 2008, 10:46 PM
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        Arnold said "Come to Utah huh? lol... no thanks, I went to dental school in Cleveland, OH with a 75% Mormon population. It wa"
        Come to Utah huh? lol... no thanks, I went to dental school in
        Cleveland, OH with a 75% Mormon population. It was 4 years of the
        most boring time of my life. Needless to say, its not my cup of tea
        (but, never-the-less, big ups for the exceptions)
        1. ferrin
          ferrin

          RE: Dazed and Confused + -

          ferrin Apr 13 at 2008, 11:05 PM
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          ferrin said "I didn't say Utah. I said out west."
          I didn't say Utah. I said out west.
        2. Niressa
          Niressa

          RE: Dazed and Confused + -

          Niressa Apr 14 at 2008, 11:15 PM
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          Niressa said "This is definitely a case of deja vu. Can't remember who brought this up before. While I understand how it can be s"
          This is definitely a case of deja vu. Can't remember who brought this up before. While I understand how it can be seen that the majority of women are very much like this in Boston, I am sure there must be some women with a good head on their shoulders and a great personality to boot. I think the demographic of college-fresh adults makes this a little tough to find. I am not full of suggestions as far as where to find such a catch. For me, I think it's best to meet new people, have fun, and who knows who you might meet. It's easy to get frustrated when you're "looking." Lots of luck ;)

          Btw, join the dark side...I promise we're fun http://boston.going.com/group-729;Lus...
          1. Jeff
            Jeff

            RE: Dazed and Confused + -

            Jeff May 5 at 2008, 10:50 PM